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The welfare of certain segments of our community will always provoke an emotional response from me—people of color, women, children, the elderly—but for the most part, I consider myself to be a fairly chilled spirit.
In fact, 99% of the time I am completely unbothered.
I mention my calm temperament in an attempt to help those who will read this article to understand just how enraged I must have been to consider throwing my laptop across the room.
According to this woman, Black men prefer White women because: ● Black men can pull hair during sex without the tracks slipping ● They ride for their men and Black women leave them when they are broke ● We carry ourselves in a way that turns the Black man off ● We have 5 or 6 kids by multiple Baby daddies ● We can’t pay our bills because we spend all of our money on weave ● We don’t have father figures ● All of the other races are taking over You get the picture.As livid as I was, my anger subdued when I realized that my frustrations were misplaced. She was spoon-fed a scoop of #alternativefacts by a self-hating Black man.If he, meaning the Black man as a whole doesn’t honor us, how can we possible be upset that people outside of our community don’t either?Black women aren’t angry because the Black man decides to date women of other races. I can only speak for myself on this matter, but there are some attractive White men in this world, and I for one am down with the #Swirl Life.Ultimately, who a person decides to love is their choice.
The issue that we as Black women face is the disappointing reality that too often when the Black men does decided to date women of other nationalities, they feel compelled to bash and demean us in the process.