Essential dating skills
I’ve been talking to a lot of younger guys lately about women and dating.
Often I find myself being very jealous of these guys, even when they’re screwing up and making all the usual mistakes.
That’s because back in the early 90s when I was in my early 20s, we didn’t have an internet, or PUA, or the manosphere, or any of that stuff.
Back then, if you wanted to get laid or get a girlfriend, you had to do it the old fashioned way, which means you had to hope you got a job with some cute female co-workers, or hope you could get a buddy who was a “natural”, and then do your best to clone what he did.
There were some dating books back then, but they were pretty terrible.
Not that I read very many, but the ones I remember taking a look at were dreadfully bad.
If I had known these things back when I was 18 or 22, man, my sex life and relationship life in throughout my 20s would have been completely different. Assuming she’s attracted to you, she wants to fuck you very, very badly, even if she acts like she doesn’t want to and even if she seems to resist sex. The only reason it seems like you are the one who wants it and she does not, is because she’s been trained her entire life to resist her biological urges and to pretend like she doesn’t like sex. It means you stop assuming that you are the one who wants sex more. Women are not going to get mad at you when you open them.
You’re not.) This is a huge misunderstanding about the word “seduction”. In most cases, they’ll be happy to have someone to talk to.
The art of seduction is not getting women to do what they don’t want to do. As a younger guy, I always expected that if I walked up to a woman and said hi, or asked a woman out on a date, she would get upset, possibly insult me, and possibly cause a scene. As experienced daygame guys will tell you, 99% of women are extremely polite when you open them or ask them out, and are often flattered even if they aren’t attracted to you.
It is you creating a pathway for women to be comfortable with their desire to have sex with you as fast as possible without judgment. Societal Programming trains women to be sweet and polite to strangers.
This is one of the very rare times Societal Programming actually works in your favor. A lot of younger guys are very ashamed that they are virgins, or have only had sex with three women or whatever.
Always remember that when you want to say hi to that cute girl, or ask a girl out, regardless of the outcome she will be sweet about it. They assume that if they tell a woman of their inexperience, she’ll laugh at them and turn down sex for that reason alone.